I don’t feel I am a very sympathetic person.
I call it Life.
And the answer…?
To deal accordenly, appropriately.
That is likely thought of differently by different people in the same situation, but it still carries some fundelmentals.
We are going to get stressed and scared. We are going to have ‘noone to talk to’. We are going to feel that we have no space in our brain or our hearts; that we are a flopped mess with no direction. There will be times we will feel so down and upset with ourselves that the only way to walk through the grocery store is zombie style. But how we deal with all of those emotions, how we initially react and our long term feelings on the issues, are choices that we can control. That we can improve.
And when we are better at dealing with life, we are a better person.
And when we are a better person, we have a better life.
We are built with both positive and negative feelings. Even though the negative ones are ones we tend to dislike, they are still good to have.
How else do you think we improve or progress?
In relationships,in parenting, or in the workfield?
We are built with the desire to be better.
Feelings can launch you into a spin of happy or of sad. Of self reflection, of doubt, or of denial.
We always want to be happy with our significant other but we may not always try.
Happy can only be tried for to a certain extent. Then the amount we are trying, cancels the amount of happy.
If we are conscious of our level of happiness, if we know how we can be happier, the tools in which to get there, become easier to get.
They become easier to get because we become able to produce them.
It doesn’t mean we can stock our shelves with the stuff, but it does mean we’re bound to be a more positive person that generates a way for people to find THEIR tools.
Positive people beget positive people.
And how great would a city, a state, a province, a WORLD be..
if everyone was more positive?